Marital Discord

Law allows only one spouse. But culture and tradition don’t prevent men from having more than one spouse. Men have freedom to do anything. They enjoy freedom after marriage. Some men cannot be happy with only one woman. They get bored easily and look for another one. That’s what Haryana deputy CM Chander Mohan did when he met a sexy girl. When lust took over him he forgot his duty and left the throne. When his marriage and conversion news spread across the nation he tried to console himself saying, even Kings had sacrificed the throne for love. Did he sacrifice his throne for love or lust? Love is for first wife, lust for the second one. When the second nuptial knot started suffocating him he did a somersault and landed into soup. Now he repents of separation from his wife. The first wife’s emotional trauma has the strength to pull him back to her.

When News channel showed their love saga I watched it with great interest. I did realize his love was not genuine. The girl seemed too much excited. But he showed an expression as if he had had a half-emptied bowel. He might have promised to marry her to yield to his desire. The poor woman couldn’t make out whether it was love or lust. Now she must have understood her folly. The couple has been playing a tug-of-war for 3 months. It is a lesson for other girls too. Girls should avoid friendship with a married man as possible as they can unless he is divorced legally.

TOI report says Chand-Fiza saga ends in SMS talaq. It doesn’t seem ended. A legal and religious battle is ahead to fight.

Another case of nuptial problem popped up just a few days ago. Unable to spend time with wife, TN engineer throws daughter into well—news headlines from TOI.
Niranjan Kumar, a software engineer and a gold medalist from BITS-Pilani threw his new born 4-day old baby girl into a well behind his house. He didn’t want a baby soon. The real reason is he doesn’t like children. The man must be day dreaming. When he had physical relation with his wife without the use of contraceptives he might have forgotten the fact that she will conceive. How can we change the Nature’s rules? Nature is not in our control. But we are in Nature’s control. When a man and woman marry the excitement of physical relation comes to their mind first, pregnancy and child birth comes later. Those who don’t want family better not to marry.

Furthermore, he is said to be under medication for depression. Anti-depressants will drain the brain’s efficiency and make it abnormal. Chances are a person under psychiatric treatment commit crime.

When fate waits at the door-step of your life your brain may work accordingly. When the 29 year old husband and 22 year old wife both came under Saturn’s transit this happened in their life. This is not the only case. I see such cases daily in the news. Marital problems are increasing day by day in both urban and rural society.