Women's Liberation!

This article is a remainder of International Women’s Day. I don’t believe in women’s lib. In this male-dominated world women are still slave of men. When women are enemies to women how will women’s lib work out? Women are not going to liberate. Most men impose a Taliban rule on their women. If a marriage flops wife has to take blame. Other female family members would find fault with wife’s nature. They would criticize her for inability to adjust with her man and they may even torture and throw her out of the house. They think woman should adjust and tolerate her man’s behavior even if he is a beast. Men don’t have to change their ways. Husband will get a pat on his back from family members if he tortures his wife. Men enjoy freedom too much in the name of culture and tradition. Our culture and tradition teach women to be patient and tolerant like Sita Devi. When a woman is in trouble other women will not come forward to help her. Instead they would throw more accusations on her. This is our society.

Women have the habit of comparing with other women and feel jealous. Out of jealousy they would create chaos in the family and make the home a hell. Sometimes it will be men creating trouble. But mostly women are home-breakers. Women are responsible for the extinction of joint families. If family members are good willed a joint family is a better solution for women’s sufferings. Women cannot expect a better life until they understand and change the attitudes towards other women. If women can get along with other women in the family and ready to help each other, men may change accordingly. It seems women are born to cry and to be vulnerable and men are to laugh and to be valiant. But it is not Nature’s rules, rules made by selfish men or society. I wonder if there is a woman who has never wept in her life.